{"id":40450,"date":"2020-09-17T11:09:30","date_gmt":"2020-09-17T09:09:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/unric.org\/en\/?p=40450"},"modified":"2020-09-22T15:47:56","modified_gmt":"2020-09-22T13:47:56","slug":"cyberbullying-what-is-it-and-how-to-stop-it","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/unric.org\/en\/cyberbullying-what-is-it-and-how-to-stop-it\/","title":{"rendered":"Cyberbullying: What is it and how to stop it"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>UNICEF has teamed up with social media platforms to start a global campaign against Cyberbullying.\u00a0UNICEF has, with the help of young people around the world and experts, identified\u00a0<em>10 things teens want to know about cyberbullying and how to fight it.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Cyberbullying is bullying with the use of digital technologies. It can take place on social media, messaging platforms, gaming platforms and mobile phones. It is repeated\u00a0behaviour, aimed at scaring, angering or shaming those who are targeted. Examples include:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>spreading lies about, or posting embarrassing photos of, someone on social media.<\/li>\n<li>sending hurtful messages or threats via messaging platforms.<\/li>\n<li>impersonating someone and sending mean messages to others on their behalf.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Cyberbullying leaves a digital footprint \u2013 a record that can prove useful and provide evidence to help stop the abuse.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Here are ten frequently asked questions:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><strong>Am I being bullied online? How do you tell the difference between a joke and bullying?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>All friends joke around with each other, but sometimes it\u2019s hard to tell if someone is just having fun or trying to hurt you, especially online.<\/p>\n<p>But if you feel hurt or think others are laughing at you instead of with you, then the joke has gone too far. If it continues even after you\u2019ve asked the person to stop and you are still feeling upset about it, then this could be bullying.<\/p>\n<p>And when the bullying takes place online, it can result in unwanted attention from a wide range of people including strangers. Wherever it may happen, if you are not happy about it, you should not accept it.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-40455\" src=\"https:\/\/unric.org\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2020\/09\/cyberbullying-3.jpg\" alt=\"cyberbullying banner\" width=\"784\" height=\"478\" srcset=\"https:\/\/unric.org\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2020\/09\/cyberbullying-3.jpg 784w, https:\/\/unric.org\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2020\/09\/cyberbullying-3-300x183.jpg 300w, https:\/\/unric.org\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2020\/09\/cyberbullying-3-768x468.jpg 768w, https:\/\/unric.org\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2020\/09\/cyberbullying-3-696x424.jpg 696w, https:\/\/unric.org\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2020\/09\/cyberbullying-3-689x420.jpg 689w, https:\/\/unric.org\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2020\/09\/cyberbullying-3-500x305.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 784px) 100vw, 784px\" \/><\/p>\n<ol start=\"2\">\n<li><strong>What are the effects of cyberbullying?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>When bullying happens online it can feel as if you\u2019re being attacked everywhere, even inside your own home. It can seem like there\u2019s no escape. The effects can last a long time and affect a person in many ways:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Mentally<\/strong>\u00a0\u2014 feeling upset, embarrassed, stupid, even angry<\/li>\n<li><strong>Emotionally<\/strong>\u00a0\u2014 feeling ashamed or losing interest in the things you love<\/li>\n<li><strong>Physically<\/strong>\u00a0\u2014 tired (loss of sleep), or experiencing symptoms like stomach aches and headaches<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>The feeling of being laughed at or harassed by others, can prevent people from speaking up or trying to deal with the problem. In extreme cases, cyberbullying can even lead to people taking their own lives.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-40458\" src=\"https:\/\/unric.org\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2020\/09\/cyberbullying-5.jpg\" alt=\"cyberbullying banner\" width=\"784\" height=\"478\" srcset=\"https:\/\/unric.org\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2020\/09\/cyberbullying-5.jpg 784w, https:\/\/unric.org\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2020\/09\/cyberbullying-5-300x183.jpg 300w, https:\/\/unric.org\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2020\/09\/cyberbullying-5-768x468.jpg 768w, https:\/\/unric.org\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2020\/09\/cyberbullying-5-696x424.jpg 696w, https:\/\/unric.org\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2020\/09\/cyberbullying-5-689x420.jpg 689w, https:\/\/unric.org\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2020\/09\/cyberbullying-5-500x305.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 784px) 100vw, 784px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ol start=\"3\">\n<li><strong>Who should I talk to if someone is bullying me online? Why is reporting important?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>If you think you\u2019re being bullied, the first step is to seek help from someone you trust such as\u00a0your parents, a close family member or another trusted adult.<\/p>\n<p>In your school, you can reach out to a counsellor, the sports coach or your favourite teacher.<\/p>\n<p><strong>And if you are not comfortable talking to someone you know,\u00a0<\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.childhelplineinternational.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><strong>search for a helpline in your country<\/strong><\/a><strong>\u00a0to talk to a professional counsellor.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If the bullying is happening on a social platform, consider blocking the bully and formally reporting their\u00a0behaviour\u00a0on the platform itself. Social media companies are obligated to keep their users safe.<\/p>\n<p>It can be helpful to collect evidence \u2013 text messages and screenshots of social media posts \u2013 to show what\u2019s been going on.<\/p>\n<p>For bullying to stop, it needs to be identified and reporting it is key. It can also help to show the bully that their\u00a0behaviour\u00a0is unacceptable.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-40457\" src=\"https:\/\/unric.org\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2020\/09\/cyberbullying-6.jpg\" alt=\"cyberbullying banner\" width=\"784\" height=\"478\" srcset=\"https:\/\/unric.org\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2020\/09\/cyberbullying-6.jpg 784w, https:\/\/unric.org\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2020\/09\/cyberbullying-6-300x183.jpg 300w, https:\/\/unric.org\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2020\/09\/cyberbullying-6-768x468.jpg 768w, https:\/\/unric.org\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2020\/09\/cyberbullying-6-696x424.jpg 696w, https:\/\/unric.org\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2020\/09\/cyberbullying-6-689x420.jpg 689w, https:\/\/unric.org\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2020\/09\/cyberbullying-6-500x305.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 784px) 100vw, 784px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ol start=\"4\">\n<li><strong>I\u2019m experiencing cyberbullying, but I\u2019m afraid to talk to my parents about it. How can I approach them?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>If you are experiencing cyberbullying, speaking to a trusted adult \u2013 someone you feel safe talking to \u2013 is one of the most important first steps you can take.<\/p>\n<p>Talking to parents isn\u2019t easy for everyone. But there are things you can do to help the conversation. Choose a time to talk when you know you have their full attention. Explain how serious the problem is for you. Remember, they might not be as familiar with technology as you are, so you might need to help them to understand what\u2019s happening.<\/p>\n<p>They might not have instant answers for you, but they are likely to want to help and together you can find a solution.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ol start=\"5\">\n<li><strong>How can I help my friends report a case of cyberbullying especially if they don\u2019t want to do it?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Anyone can become a victim of cyberbullying. If you see this happening to someone you know, try to offer support.<\/p>\n<p>It is important to listen to your friend. Why don\u2019t they want to report being cyberbullied? How are they feeling? Let them know that they don\u2019t have to formally report anything, but it\u2019s crucial to talk to someone who might be able to help.<\/p>\n<p>Remember, your friend may be feeling fragile. Be kind to them. Help them think through what they might say and to whom. Offer to go with them if they decide to report. Most importantly, remind them that you\u2019re there for them and you want to help.<\/p>\n<p>If your friend still does not want to report the incident, then support them in finding a trusted adult who can help them deal with the situation.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-40460\" src=\"https:\/\/unric.org\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2020\/09\/cyberbullying-banner-7.jpg\" alt=\"cyberbullying banner\" width=\"784\" height=\"478\" srcset=\"https:\/\/unric.org\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2020\/09\/cyberbullying-banner-7.jpg 784w, https:\/\/unric.org\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2020\/09\/cyberbullying-banner-7-300x183.jpg 300w, https:\/\/unric.org\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2020\/09\/cyberbullying-banner-7-768x468.jpg 768w, https:\/\/unric.org\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2020\/09\/cyberbullying-banner-7-696x424.jpg 696w, https:\/\/unric.org\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2020\/09\/cyberbullying-banner-7-689x420.jpg 689w, https:\/\/unric.org\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2020\/09\/cyberbullying-banner-7-500x305.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 784px) 100vw, 784px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ol start=\"6\">\n<li><strong>How do we stop cyberbullying without giving up access to the Internet?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>If you experience cyberbullying, you may want to delete certain apps or stay offline for a while to give yourself time to recover. But getting off the internet is not a long-term solution. You did nothing wrong, so why should you be disadvantaged? It may even send the bullies the wrong signal \u2014 encouraging their unacceptable\u00a0behaviour.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ol start=\"7\">\n<li><strong>How do I prevent my personal information from being used to manipulate or humiliate me on social media?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Think twice before posting or sharing anything online \u2013 it may stay online forever and could be used to harm you later. Don\u2019t give out personal details such as your address, telephone number or the name of your school.<br \/>\nLearn about the privacy settings of your\u00a0favourite\u00a0social media apps. Here are some actions you can take on many of them:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>You can decide who can see your profile, send you direct messages or comment on your posts by adjusting your account privacy settings.<\/li>\n<li>You can report hurtful comments, messages and photos and request they be removed.<\/li>\n<li>Besides \u2018unfriending\u2019, you can completely block people to stop them from seeing your profile or contacting you.<\/li>\n<li>You can also choose to have comments by certain people to appear only to them without completely blocking them.<\/li>\n<li>You can delete posts on your profile or hide them from specific people.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>On most of your\u00a0favourite\u00a0social media, people aren&#8217;t notified when you block, restrict or report them.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-40461\" src=\"https:\/\/unric.org\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2020\/09\/cyberbullying-banner-8.jpg\" alt=\"cyberbullying banner\" width=\"784\" height=\"478\" srcset=\"https:\/\/unric.org\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2020\/09\/cyberbullying-banner-8.jpg 784w, https:\/\/unric.org\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2020\/09\/cyberbullying-banner-8-300x183.jpg 300w, https:\/\/unric.org\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2020\/09\/cyberbullying-banner-8-768x468.jpg 768w, https:\/\/unric.org\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2020\/09\/cyberbullying-banner-8-696x424.jpg 696w, https:\/\/unric.org\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2020\/09\/cyberbullying-banner-8-689x420.jpg 689w, https:\/\/unric.org\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2020\/09\/cyberbullying-banner-8-500x305.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 784px) 100vw, 784px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ol start=\"8\">\n<li><strong>Is there a punishment for cyberbullying?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Most schools take bullying seriously and will\u00a0take action against it. If you are being cyberbullied by other students, report it to your school.<\/p>\n<p>Laws against bullying, particularly on cyberbullying, are relatively new and still do not exist everywhere. However, it is important to remember that punishment is not always the most effective way to change the\u00a0behaviour\u00a0of bullies. It is often better to focus on repairing the harm and mending the relationship.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ol start=\"9\">\n<li><strong>\u00a0Are there any online anti-bullying tools for children or young people?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Each social platform offers different tools (see available ones below) that allow you to restrict who can comment on or view your posts or who can connect automatically as a friend, and to report cases of bullying. Many of them involve simple steps to block, mute or report cyberbullying. We encourage you to explore them.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-40456\" src=\"https:\/\/unric.org\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2020\/09\/cyberbullying-2.jpg\" alt=\"cyberbullying banner\" width=\"784\" height=\"478\" srcset=\"https:\/\/unric.org\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2020\/09\/cyberbullying-2.jpg 784w, https:\/\/unric.org\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2020\/09\/cyberbullying-2-300x183.jpg 300w, https:\/\/unric.org\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2020\/09\/cyberbullying-2-768x468.jpg 768w, https:\/\/unric.org\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2020\/09\/cyberbullying-2-696x424.jpg 696w, https:\/\/unric.org\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2020\/09\/cyberbullying-2-689x420.jpg 689w, https:\/\/unric.org\/en\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/15\/2020\/09\/cyberbullying-2-500x305.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 784px) 100vw, 784px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ol start=\"10\">\n<li><strong>Internet companies don\u2019t seem to care about online bullying and harassment. Are they being held responsible?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Internet companies are increasingly paying attention to the issue of online bullying. In a separate article we will report what companies are doing about it.<\/p>\n<p>If you are worried about your safety or something that has happened to you online, urgently speak to an adult you trust.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>UNICEF has teamed up with social media platforms to start a global campaign against Cyberbullying.\u00a0UNICEF has, with the help of young people around the world and experts, identified\u00a010 things teens want to know about cyberbullying and how to fight it.\u00a0 Cyberbullying is bullying with the use of digital technologies. 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